Togetherness

Being contented is a state odious to human kind, especially when one is young, immature (the way women see it) and is in a relationship! We all want to end up with the right person, but even the best person is never THE right person simply because relationship is a bitch, an attractive one that comes with self-outlined rules, anticipation and demands. The pendulum fluctuates from joy and levity to seriousness and sorrow; with unfathomable insecurities of hope and unfulfilled promises. It is unfeasible for two people to strike a chord and reach over an agreement over everything, particularly in a relationship where it engages one’s persona, ego and pride in question.

When in a crew of two, there is only one winner, one has to lose while the other gains. My girlfriend frequently calls me a loser. But when I serenely rest in my comfort zone, I do realize that it is only because she’s not in hers. Our choices and decisions are poles apart. Sometimes it’s about compromising for each other. Perhaps, it is true love when you deny the pleasure for yourself just in order to see and cherish the other person enjoying the benefits.

Ten years down the line, I do want to come back home to someone I love, someone who will gently brush my hair and kiss my cheek, offer an unconditional companionship devoid of any preconceived judgments, to remind me for who I am or show me my place for otherwise.

Our troubles in life are as immense as we make them. I am not certain if this is a valid ruling in every case, but definitely cannot be overlooked, at least for some of us. Everyone has their own modest tales to recite, and we all would have come across more overwhelming tales than ours. When I hear humbling stories all around me, I feel small and insignificant. I feel diminutive about going gloomy over awfully naive things in life. I wish I could perhaps appreciate life for what it is than bawling about what it could have been.

God has got his own reasons for us to meet and come this far. We have been there for each other, sailed across the tides and I hope our love will flourish beyond what it is right now. We started as strangers, became friends, and we became one with each other and will remain one forever.

Spread Love, Happy Valentine’s Day!

FOOTNOTES: A Cinderella Story- Snapshots from a styling shoot where every Cinderella story comes true!

So the modern day ball,

turned into a visit to the mall.

They started talking as their hearts were melting.

But time of their meeting ran out,
The boy had to leave without a doubt.

In his hurry, he left his phone behind,
They were destined to meet as he was all over her mind.